I prayed my sometimes short, sometimes long little prayer of surrender, “Lord, my heart is yours. Come make it your home. Fix it. Paint it. Do whatever you want with it to make it a place for you to live.” I closed my eyes to focus on God and how he wanted to fill the space. It has become a ritual, a sweet cherished few moments with the Lord. I pause and picture an intimate space with just me and the Lord. It is usually on the edge of a canyon overlooking a sunset on the river as the stars appear. Sometimes it is walking along the beach. Sometimes it is sitting in a grassy meadow near still waters. And I listen. Sometimes I just sit there in silence, feeling the closeness of the Lord and being loved by him. Sometimes he asks me a question or gives me a thought to ponder.
But today, he took me on a tour. It was like walking up to a house, but this house was my heart. He opened the door, and it was like one of those home improvement shows. He revealed the before picture. My heart was white washed, perfectly poised and washed to look the way I wanted, what the world said was perfect. And then he gave me eyes to see what he did. He stripped all the white away. It was red as ruby, and there were parts that were even a deeper red. It was full of texture and depth. It was raw and natural. He said, “I restored the walls to their intended color.”
Then he showed me a little table with a vase of flowers, and he said, “To bring a little joy into your heart, I’ve placed tulips here. I know they are your favorite and your grandma’s favorite.”
Then finally, he turned me to the left and showed me the corner that needed the greatest care and attention. He said, “There was a leak over here. Some of the thoughts of others and expectations of others were getting into your heart here. I’ve stopped the leak, but your perception of those expectations and thoughts has caused mold to grow on the walls. I will have to disinfect and repair this section.”
Then as he walked to the other corner of the heart house, I took it all in. And even in seeing the moldy bits that needed cleaning, and the deep, red, raw and natural bits, it was home, it was safe, and it was full of joy and peace.
I’m not sure what moldy lies are still attached to my heart walls. I’m sure the disinfectant will sting at first, but I also trust my construction worker. He has a vision for how to transform this heart and make it a home.
He can do the same for you. Maybe your heart also has a bit of a mold problem from what you think others want from you or expect from you. Maybe your heart has a wall that is fallen in and broken by trauma and emotional pain. Maybe you have locked yourself in a corner, or you’ve covered the walls with paint, pictures, and ideas that keep the real you from being seen. Maybe it is tired and exhausted and dark because it needs fresh light and joy and rest. I don’t know the condition of your heart, but I do know there is a God who loves you dearly. He is really good at making your heart feel like home, too. There is no amount of damage too great for him to fix. Even if there are holes in the walls where you have mentally beat yourself up, he can patch that, too.
Invite him in. Close your eyes, and imagine a place of intimacy with the one who loves you more than anything, Jesus Christ. And let him show you what he has in store for your heart renovation.